Saturday, October 11, 2014

Give Tori Spelling a Break

Unless your husband has cheated on you, you will never fully understand Tori Spelling's approach to her relationship with her cheating husband, Dean McDermott.

Everyone seems to be throwing stones at her for sharing her story because children are involved.

Please... she has to support her family.

Tori allowed cameras into her life in the aftermath of her husband's affair.  You can judge her all you want, but she clearly is the main breadwinner in the family.  The entertainment industry is all she knows.  What is she supposed to do, go away quietly because her husband cheated on her to a secretarial job to support her family?  No one would hire Tori Spelling to be a secretary, we all know that.

I have been in a similar place where Tori is... without all of the money, of course.  And I have had the same difficult conversations with my husband's mistresses that Dean's former wife, Mary Jo Eustace, had with Tori.  Count yourself fortunate, Tori, that you haven't had to sit with your husband's multiple mistresses, receive their phone calls and texts.   Tori, you are lucky you only sat down with your husband's former wife.

You might be surprised that the former wife, Mary Jo Eustace, is so nice to Tori in the meeting, but who knows a man better than his former wife?  Tori needs information and confirmation.  For some men, cheating is a way of life.  Women always think it's going to be different for them.  It's not.

After the initial shock and multiple discoveries, I eventually was nice to most of my husband's mistresses, too.  Not all of them, because one involved a restraining order, another involved extortion, the FBI and police.  Fun times... welcome to my marriage.

Here's the video of Tori's latest meeting.  Apparently, they have met before yet Tori trusted him even though he had cheated on Mary Jo, too.  She really didn't think it could happen to her... until it happened.

Tori Spelling Meets with Dean McDermott's Ex Mary Jo in the 'True Tori' Season Premiere - ET.com

Maybe Tori will eventually realize this guy she married will never change.  Otherwise, Dean will drag her and her career down further until it disappears.  Dean's career is vaporizing, too. Cheating on a spouse affects every part of your life... personal relationships and professional relationships.

Honestly, I'm trying to think... what cheater has actually changed and overhauled his or her life?

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